Showing posts with label share & care anxiety. Show all posts
Showing posts with label share & care anxiety. Show all posts

Monday, January 4, 2021

This week at Share & Care

 A quote and wonderful reminder shared by Lancelost:

“If you are depressed you are living in the past.

If you are anxious you are living in the future.

If you are at peace you are living in the present.”

-  Lao Tzu


 Something to read shared by Cyntia Grainer:

The dark nights of the soul by ThomasMoore

 


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Something to watch shared by Raeven:

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Do you suffer from Anxiety and/or Depression? Share & Care is a weekly, informal gathering held at The Center for Mindfulness in Secondlife at 4pm SLT (PST) where you can share your experience, what helps you cope and what not, find or be a shoulder, make new friends or just sit and listen...

If you have something that you find useful, helpful, or interesting regarding anxiety, depression, or is mindfulness related, please share it in our Discord. You can also pass it directly to me inworld so I may also post it here on the blog.

__ Namaste


Tuesday, December 22, 2020

There are many ways to practice meditation

It's not so much how or where you mediate. It's more about being mindful and taking the time to do it. Yesterday in Share & Care, Lancelost shared that there's a game on steam to help you learn to meditate. If you suffer from anxiety, it could be a useful tool.

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PLAYNE: A meditation game.

A video game that helps players learn and build a daily habit of meditation. Grow & transform the game world by meditating. Build resilience to stress, experience calm and relaxation. 


Tuesday, November 17, 2020

Sharing and Caring in a virtual world ♥

    We do not have a formal structure for the Share & Care event. It is a time to sit together and connect with others. To build trust and friendships. It is a time and a place where the structure is based on what you bring to it, and what you would like to take from it. If you are someone who lives with anxiety or depression and would like to share what is troubling you, this is a safe place to do so. If you have helpful advice to pass on to others, we encourage you to present that to the group. It could be extremely helpful to someone who needs it. Some of you may feel more comfortable just sitting amongst peers and listening. We welcome that as well.

    This week the theme of Share & Care did not focus on anxiety or depression at all. Instead we casually talked about how being in a virtual world has been a source of relief, especially during this pandemic.

    Cythe mentioned how retail therapy in Second Life can mirror retail therapy in RL and how it brings a sense of comfort. We talked about how Second Life relationships can make us feel close to one another and how lasting bonds can be formed. Some friendships that are eventually taken to RL and others even resulting in marriage.

    We discussed how something as simple as a group hug can truly be a source of solace for someone. How playing inworld games with other people can be such a wonderful distraction to take us away from the things that might be happening in RL.

    We also acknowledged some of the amazing places people have created for everyone to explore and enjoy inworld. Just to simply escape the things that may be causing you anxiety or depression. Or, even to pass the time and witness some very creative places in SL. Who knows, you may even find a peaceful little spot to meditate.

 Here are some links that came up in our session:

 
 Lancelost, suggested this book and said he quite enjoyed it because he found it very helpful.

He also shared this link on Chronic Pain Control Techniques

     Wow, we covered so much in just one short, casual hour and we even managed to squeeze in a group hug too! On behalf of Dann, Cythe and myself, I’d like to thank those who came. Even your quiet presence is a welcomed contribution because without knowing it, you could be helping to create a sense of comfort, safety, and a supportive community for someone else. Helping others can also help mend the deep wounds within ourselves, help us grow, and heal. Or, you might just make a new friend to explore and share SL with. Plus, by simply coming and spending an hour with us, you earn a CFM coin.

Hope to see you all next week, same time, same place. 4pm SLT at the Yoga Platform.


 

Monday, November 2, 2020

New event: Mondays 4pm- Share & Care ♥

Do you suffer from Anxiety and/or Depression? 
On Mondays 4pm we set a weekly meeting Share & Care where you can share your experience, what helps you cope and what not, find or be a shoulder, make new friends or just sit and listen...
Our mantra: it's ok!

Helping other people can improve your self-esteem and make you feel better about yourself, since you are taking time and energy to have a positive impact on someone else. And receiving help from someone can be a positive motivator to then turn around and help someone else. The impact of one person helping another person, therefore, could benefit a whole chain of individuals. Just imagine how the world would be if people started using helping others as a primary coping mechanism for their own struggles. 
By turning our attention toward helping others, we make everyone feel better—ourselves included. We find not only relief from our depression and anxiety, but also improvements in our relationships.
Taken together these two effects can trigger a "virtuous circle" in which improved relationships lead to feeling better leads to improved relationships and so forth.
Compassion and kindness at it's best ♥